If the latest "breakthrough" child-development theory, parenting technique, or child-appropriate diet makes you worry or groan (or just want to lie down for a nap), it's time to make way for Momfidence! Paula Spencer, parenting expert and mother of four, provides refreshing, down-to-earth proof that most of the business of raising confident, healthy children involves nothing more complicated that trusting your instincts, using common sense, and above all, hanging on to your humor.
Momfidence! is:
•Using "perfect" only to describe such wonders as a ripe peach, a cloudless day at the beach, or a husband who does diapers and dinner. . . It has no application whatsoever in describing motherhood.
•Recognizing that there are appropriate times and places for lying, yelling, threatening, bribing, and saying "I told you so"
•Sending yourself to time-out—preferably with chocolate and/or your spouse
•Being completely amnesiac about the day's exasperating transgressions when you peek in your children's bedrooms at night and watch them sleep
Based on her popular Woman's Day and Parenting columns, Momfidence! explains how obsessing less and winging it more can keep you sane—and your kids healthy and happy. It's a hilarious look at "perfect motherhood" that cuts parents a long-overdue break by reminding us that we're not the amateurs here—we're all experts, too.
Really great book!
I have several of the books listed above as "Customers who bought this book also bought..." and so far, as I make my way through the stack, I have found Paula's book to be the best. Funny, realistic, with just enough self-deprecating humor to make you really want to be her friend. And I say this because the sad thing is that of all the moms I know, I couldn't recommend this to any of them because no one ever admits to having these feelings of inadequacy. Another more academic but also thoughtful look at this topic is a book called "The Mask of Motherhood". I am so glad that Paula Spencer took the time to write about this, since we so rarely talk about it.
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